several of the men i work with are divorced. one of them was talking with my boss today about his family when my boss casually and cheerfully asked if there was any chance of the guy and his ex-wife getting back together. (like, who asks this?)

no, the guy said. he said she had been married before him as well but divorced her first husband when he cheated on her. in her second divorce with this guy, or soon thereafter, she was excommunicated after becoming estranged from the church. "she'll tell you that the church only excommunicates women, because they didn't excommunicate her husband for cheating on her."

my boss asked what it would take for them to get back together. (who asks that??) the guy said she would have to be good with the church again for that to happen.

"oh, so in the spirit world probably you'll be together again," my boss said.

who says things like that?? who THINKS things like that?